Kween Kong - You're Not Different, You're More

Welcome back to You're a Good Kid! We are thrilled to kick off Season 2 with an absolute powerhouse of a guest. Not only are we back with a brand new lineup of deeply moving conversations, but we are officially on YouTube this season! You can now watch the full video episodes of our interviews and debriefs.

Our premier guest for Season 2 is the phenomenal Kween Kong (Thomas Charles Fonua). Before capturing hearts worldwide as a finalist on RuPaul's Drag Race Down Under (Season 2) and representing Oceania on RuPaul's Drag Race Global All Stars, Thomas was a celebrated principal dancer for New Zealand's Black Grace and the Australian Dance Theatre. An award-winning choreographer, cultural leader, Logie Award nominee, and founder of the Haus of Kong, Kween has spent her career breaking boundaries and advocating for Pacific and First Nations queer youth. But behind the global success, the runway glamour, and the artistic accolades lies a profound childhood story of survival, identity, and resilience.

Growing up as Thomas in South Auckland, life presented a complex web of challenges from an early age. Discovering his queerness as a young child meant navigating intense rejection from a strict Jehovah’s Witness church community and an abusive father. Yet, amidst the trauma and the pressure to suppress his true self, an extraordinary shield emerged. It came from the fierce love of his mother and grandmother, who handed him a psychological lifeline with a single, transformative sentence: "You are not different, you are more."

This is an unforgettable story about the heavy cost of hiding who you are, the breathtaking courage it takes to step into your truth, and the enduring power of unconditional love.

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